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Premise Pods

Premise Pods are three-session conversations built around a big life question.
This year, our nine Pods focus on the theme: how to be a person in complicated times?
You can join one Pod, a few, or commit to the whole year.

Explore Life's Big Questions

Are we who we’ve always been?

This Pod asks what stays constant in us, what changes, and whether becoming a person means discovering who we are or learning how to live with all the selves we have been.


Most of us carry more than one version of ourselves: who we were, who others think we are, who we hoped to become, who we had to become, and who we are still becoming now.


Across three conversations, we will ask: Are we who we have always been? How much can a person really change? What makes you still you? Can we make peace with who we have been?


We will draw from a range of sources to explore this big life question, including short prose, poems, essays, memoir, film, and documentary. Together, these works will help us think about the public self and private self, the languages and worlds we inherit, the selves we perform, the selves we lose, and the selves we slowly learn to welcome home.

As always, the readings and films are a shared starting point. Previous expereince or expertise is never required.

Online: Saturdays Sept. 5,& 9, & Oct. 3

10:00-11:30 AM PST/1:00-2:30PM EST

Portland: Sundays Sept. 13, 27, & Oct.4

5:30-7:30PM

Are we our bodies?

This Pod asks how much of who we are lives in the body: its limits, appearance, pain, pleasure, aging, and vulnerability.


Most of us live somewhere between trusting our bodies and arguing with them. We age, get sick, change shape, lose strength, gain strength, feel pleasure, feel pain, and carry the marks of what has happened to us. Our bodies can feel like home, but they can also feel strange, unreliable, exposed, or hard to recognize.


Other people read our bodies too. They see beauty, weakness, gender, race, age, health, disability, desire, and difference, often before they know anything else about us. Sometimes we are loved through our bodies. Sometimes we are judged, limited, or misunderstood because of them.


This Pod sits with the strange intimacy of having a body in a world that sends so many conflicting messages about what bodies are for. Together, we will think about beauty, shame, illness, aging, disability, pleasure, care, and the question of what remains “us” as the body changes.

The central tension of this Pod is that the body can feel like our deepest home and our greatest limit. It is how we meet the world, and also how the world meets us.

Online: Saturdays Oct. 24, Nov. 7, Nov. 14

10:00-11:30 AM PST/1:00-2:30PM EST

Portland: Sundays Oct. 18, Nov. 1, Nov. 8

5:30-7:30PM

What is home?

This Pod asks what home really is: a place, a people, a memory, a country, a family, a language, a landscape, or something we keep trying to make.


Home is one of the first ideas we inherit, and one of the hardest to define. It can be where we feel most known, and where we feel most trapped. It can be a refuge, a wound, a table, a room, a city, a homeland, a story, or a feeling we spend years trying to find again.


Some people leave home by choice. Some are forced to leave. Some return and discover that the place has changed, or that they have. Some build home slowly, through love, routine, food, friendship, work, children, memory, or care. Some never stop longing for a home that no longer exists.


This Pod sits with the deep pull of home: where we come from, what we carry, what we lose, and how we make belonging in a changing life.


The central tension of this Pod is that home can both hold us and limit us. It can shape who we are, call us back, and ask us to become someone new.

Online: Saturdays Dec. 5, 12, 19

10:00-11:30 AM PST/1:00-2:30PM EST

Portland: Sundays Nov. 15, Dec. 6, Dec. 13

5:30-7:30PM

Just because we can, should we?

This Pod asks what should guide us when the line between impossible and ordinary keeps moving.

We can edit genes, build machines that talk back, keep bodies alive longer than ever before, revive voices from the dead, and reach into the climate of the whole planet. The old question was what we are able to do. The harder question is what we ought to do, and who gets to decide.

Human beings have always reached beyond old limits. Sometimes that reaching cures, frees, protects, and reveals. Sometimes it creates harms we did not foresee, powers we cannot control, or doors that cannot easily be closed again.

This Pod sits with the tension between possibility and wisdom. It is not a conversation about stopping progress. It is a conversation about how to choose well inside a world where our tools often move faster than our judgment.

The central tension of this Pod is that curiosity, invention, and ambition are deeply human, but so are humility, responsibility, and the need to ask whether every possible future is one we actually want.

Online: Saturdays Jan 9, 23, Feb. 6

10:00-11:30 AM PST/1:00-2:30PM EST

Portland: Sundays January 10, 24, Feb. 7

What is happiness, really?

This Pod asks what happiness really is, and why a word we use so easily becomes harder to define the more honestly we look at it.


We spend our lives chasing happiness, organizing around it, measuring ourselves against it, and wondering why it can be so hard to find or keep. But happiness can mean many different things: pleasure, peace, contentment, success, love, meaning, freedom, comfort, delight, or a life that feels whole from the inside.


This Pod slows the question down. What do we mistake for happiness? What kinds of happiness can be trusted? What happens when getting what we want does not satisfy us? What does happiness have to do with other people, with suffering, with goodness, and with the world we are living in?


The central tension is this: happiness feels deeply personal, but it is never only personal. It is shaped by what we desire, what we love, what we fear, what we owe, and what kind of life we are willing to call good.


Across three conversations, participants will read and watch short works from philosophy, fiction, poetry, film, psychology, social science, and contemporary essay. The goal is not to arrive at one definition of happiness. The goal is to leave with a clearer sense of what we are really after, and what kind of life we want to build around that.

Preparation between sessions is designed to take under two hours.

Online: Sunday Feb 14, 28, March 14

4:00-5:30PM PST/7:00-8:30PM EST

Portland: Sundays February 21, March 7, March 21st

10:30AM-12:30PM

What is love? What should it be?

This Pod asks whether love is a feeling, a choice, a practice, a hunger, a responsibility, or some complicated mix of all of these.

Dates coming soon

How do we decide what’s right?

This Pod asks where morality comes from: rules, consequences, conscience, courage, care, community, or the ability to live with ourselves.

Dates coming soon

What does democracy ask of us?

This Pod asks what democracy requires beyond voting: attention, disagreement, truth, courage, memory, participation, and care for a shared world.

Dates coming soon

How much is enough?

This Pod asks about money, desire, ambition, security, comfort, generosity, and why it can be so hard to know when we have enough.

Dates coming soon

How do other people’s expectations shape who we become?

This Pod asks how we are shaped by pressure, performance, social roles, and the stories other people tell about us.

Dates coming soon

Ways to Join

Pick one Pod

Choose any single Pod that speaks to you. Each one stands on its own.

$150 in person / $125 online 

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Join the whole year

Commit to all nine Pods before the year begins and save, along with a few extras for people who want to stay close to the work all year: a monthly drop-in conversation with Mary, a 1:1 conversation, and an invitation to the year-end gathering.

$900 in person / $750 online

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FAQ  Premise Pods

  • It’s three guided sessions with the same people, all centered on one big life question, with a short set of readings or a film that helps you see the question from multiple angles. Pods are offered in person (Portland and other cities coming soon!) and online, and they’re designed for people who want something deeper than a one-off event—connection, continuity, and a shared thread to return to.

  • In person: 2 hours
    Online: 1.5 hours
    We start and end on time. 

  • Prep is light and doable and intentionally designed to fit into a busy life. 

    Before each session, you’ll get a set of short readings or a film  chosen to spark reflection and conversation. Most people spend about 60-90 minutes preparing—enough to come in grounded, curious, and ready for conversation.

  • Not at all.
     

    Premise Pods are designed for curious people, not experts. You don’t need any background knowledge—just a willingness to engage with the material, listen well, and bring your own perspective to the conversation.

  • We really hope you’ll be able to make all three sessions, since the continuity is what makes a Pod special.

    That said, missing one session won’t be the end of the world—you can still come to the next one and stay connected to the group. If you miss more than one, it may start to feel a bit too disjointed, both for you and for the Pod’s shared thread of conversation.

  • In person Pods are capped at 12 people.
    Online Pods are capped at 15 people.

  • Online Pods meet on Zoom. After you register, we’ll send clear instructions and your Zoom link.
     

    In-person Pods meet at our Portland home base at 722 Page St. After you register, we’ll send details on how to access the space.
     

    We’re also working toward Pods in other Premise communities—stay tuned as new locations open up.

  • Neither.
     

    A Premise Pod is a guided conversation where a small group gathers around one enduring life question, with a short reading or film as a shared starting point. It is a space for intellectual fellowship and for meeting new people who are also hungry for richer conversation. You get to try on new ideas, hear perspectives you would not encounter in your usual circles, and leave with more questions than answers in the best way.
     

    It is not a class. There are no lectures, homework, or grades.
     

    It is not group therapy. Premise is not clinical, and it is not designed for crisis support or therapeutic processing.
     

    It is a facilitated conversation experience that is structured, welcoming, and deeply human.

  • In Portland and for online Pods, Mary Finn, the founder of Premise, facilitates the Pod.
     

    Facilitators are there to create a welcoming, inclusive space and to guide the flow of conversation so that everyone has room to participate. They are not lecturers, and they are not therapists. They bring thoughtful prompts and strong discussion design that helps a group engage with curiosity, care, and intellectual honesty.
     

    As Premise expands, Pods may also be led by other trained Premise facilitators. You can learn more about our facilitators here.

  • After you register, you will receive a confirmation email with everything you need.
     

    You will get the session dates and times, the prep materials for the first session, and clear instructions for where to go.
     

    If you registered for an online Pod, we will send your Zoom link and login details.
     

    If you registered for an in person Pod in Portland, we will send instructions for accessing our home base at 722 Page St.

  • Yes, please do.

    Premise Pods are often even better with a friend, especially if you want a familiar face in the room. Just have your friend register separately so we can hold their spot, since Pods are capped and often fill.

  • Premise Pods are funded entirely by participant revenue, and that revenue is what keeps the program going and growing.
     

    We also do not want money to be the reason you cannot join. If you would like to come but cannot pay, or you need a significant discount, email Mary at Mary@premiseinstitute.com

    No need to explain. No questions asked.

  • We always provide the readings after you register.

    Sometimes a Pod includes a film, and that may require access to a streaming service like Netflix. When possible, we provide links and clear instructions so it is easy to find.

  • Premise attracts a wide mix of people.

    Pods tend to include adults of different ages and backgrounds who are curious, thoughtful, and hungry for deeper conversation.

    Some people come because they love literature and big questions. Others come because they want to meet new people and have more meaningful dialogue than daily life usually makes room for.
     

    You do not need a specific academic background. You just need a willingness to show up, engage with the materials, and be part of a generous conversation.

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