

Thu, May 29
|Cups of Yoga
What is Love? What Should It Be?
"All About Love" by bell hooks (selected chapters, non-fiction) & "A Temporary Matter" by Jhumpa Lahiri (short story) ⏱️ Preparation: Approx. 2 hours
May 29, 2025, 6:30 PM – 8:30 PM
Cups of Yoga, 24900 Highland Way, Los Gatos, CA 95033, USA
Premise is delighted to launch the Los Gatos chapter in partnership with Cups of Yoga.
The material for this session:
Selected chapters from All About Love by bell hooks
Chapter 1: Clarity – Give Love Words Explore how a lack of clarity in defining love leads to confusion in relationships and within ourselves.
Chapter 10: Romance – Sweet Love Challenge the myths and fantasies of romantic love, and reflect on how authentic love can be distinguished from the cultural ideals that often distort our perceptions.
The short story, "A Temporary Matter," by Jhumpa Lahiri
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What are the expectations for preparation?
At Premise, we understand that your time is valuable, so we keep preparation light—typically under 2 hours. Each session revolves around a core text, whether it’s a short story, film, or essay, providing a shared foundation for meaningful conversation. This approach ensures everyone is ready to dive into thoughtful dialogue, creating a richer and more engaging experience. Your preparation means we all have a common starting point for exploring big ideas together.
Do I need to have previous experience with the text or question?
No, not at all! At Premise, we value both beginner eyes and deep experience—each brings something unique to the conversation. Whether you’ve been in many intellectual discussions or this is your first, our sessions are designed to make everyone feel comfortable and engaged. You don’t need to be an expert; our structure and guidelines help ensure that both the novice and the seasoned thinker feel welcome and supported. Premise is for anyone curious about life’s big questions.
What is a Premise session like?
A Premise session is a thoughtfully crafted, expertly facilitated conversation using the Premise discussion model. Together, we explore life’s enduring questions through short works of literature, film, or art. With just 1-2 hours of preparation, you’ll join a vibrant, meaningful discussion where the following values are embraced:
Active Participation: Everyone comes prepared to engage thoughtfully.
Listening & Reflection: We prioritize listening and reflection over debate.
Shared Inquiry: Our conversations are driven by curiosity and mutual exploration.
Premise creates a welcoming space for both beginners and experienced thinkers, ensuring every voice is heard in a dialogue that inspires deep learning and connection. Learn more about the participant experience.
Wait! These enduring questions are a bit weighty. Will this actually be enjoyable?
Absolutely! While we tackle life’s big questions, the atmosphere is engaging and enjoyable. At Premise, we believe learning should be joyful, not intimidating. Our expert facilitators guide the conversation in a way that makes deep topics approachable, encouraging curiosity and connection rather than pressure or competition. You’ll leave feeling inspired, connected, and enriched by the experience—plus, it’s fun to dive into meaningful discussions with fellow curious minds!


